You are, by nature, a nurturer. You protect your loved ones in a maternal or paternal way. You are often the one others run to when they need something. And your loved ones have gotten used to this. One of those loved ones, however, has gotten far too used to it, Moonchild. This person comes to you when the wind blows the wrong way, and you rush to the rescue. You have set a precedent, but you need to change it. Make it clear that you'll be there for those you care about when it's truly needed, but they will have to do for themselves otherwise. That's tough love. ---- 你天生就是个养育者。你会以做为父母的方式去保护你爱的人。当别人需要什麽事情的 时候，你通常是那位别人寻求援助的目标。并且你的挚爱己经习惯这样子的方式。然而 ，你挚爱中的其中一位己经太习惯於此了，月之子。每当这号人物一有麻烦的时候，就 会寻求你的协助，而你也赶紧去前往营救。你己经有这样的先例，但你需要去改变它。 明确的说，当他们真正需要协助的时候，你会在那并守护你关心的朋友，但除此之外， 他们也将必须为自己负责，这是种严厉的爱。 ---- 渣翻求指点。 --

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