If you want to solve a problem you are wrangling with right now, you need to look at the situation from another point of view. Either pretend you are someone else who is looking at the facts as an impartial bystander, or ask someone you trust who gives objective and excellent advice. Once you see your problem from a distance, and without the personal elements attached to it, you will know exactly what to do. You may want to keep doing what you have been doing, Moonchild, but if it isn't working, this advice may be an effective way to resolve your matter. ---- 如果你想要去解決一個現在正爭執中的問題，你需要去從另一個角度來看待這份情況。 不管是假裝以公正的旁觀者來看待這個真相，還是請求某位你信任的人物來給予你客觀 及良好的建議。一旦你從局外來看待你的問題，而並不以個人的原因來加油添醋在問題 上，你將會知道你該要去怎麼做。你也許想去繼續你正在己經做的事，月之子，如果它 起不了作用，那麼這份建議將會是解決你問題的最好一個方式。 ---- 渣翻求指點。 --

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