If you want to solve a problem you are wrangling with right now, you need to look at the situation from another point of view. Either pretend you are someone else who is looking at the facts as an impartial bystander, or ask someone you trust who gives objective and excellent advice. Once you see your problem from a distance, and without the personal elements attached to it, you will know exactly what to do. You may want to keep doing what you have been doing, Moonchild, but if it isn't working, this advice may be an effective way to resolve your matter. ---- 如果你想要去解决一个现在正争执中的问题，你需要去从另一个角度来看待这份情况。 不管是假装以公正的旁观者来看待这个真相，还是请求某位你信任的人物来给予你客观 及良好的建议。一旦你从局外来看待你的问题，而并不以个人的原因来加油添醋在问题 上，你将会知道你该要去怎麽做。你也许想去继续你正在己经做的事，月之子，如果它 起不了作用，那麽这份建议将会是解决你问题的最好一个方式。 ---- 渣翻求指点。 --

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