Don't be tempted to make an important decision in a defensive state of mind. If you do, you could wind up making a choice based on anger, resentment, revenge, or even insecurity. That could translate to a misguided decision that could leave you filled with regret and disappointment. Before you consider what you want and need to do, Moonchild, you need to settle into the right state of mind. You need to first ascertain what you really do want and need, and then you have to empower yourself by finding balance and a sense of confidence. That will lead you to do the best thing you can do for yourself and others. ---- 不要在一個懷有戒心的心態下企圖去做一個重要的決定。如果你這麼做了，到頭來最 終是基於在一個憤怒，不滿，報復或甚至是一個沒安全感下所作的一個選擇。那有可 能轉變成一個誤導的決定，並且使你充滿著後悔及失望。在你需要做及想要去做什麼 樣的事情之前，月之子，你要讓你自己思緒處在正確的狀態。首先你要確定需要及想 要的東西是哪些，再來藉由找尋之間的平衡及自信心來提升自己。那才會使你自己或 是為了其它人能夠做出最棒的事情。 ---- 渣翻求指點。 --

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