Don't be tempted to make an important decision in a defensive state of mind. If you do, you could wind up making a choice based on anger, resentment, revenge, or even insecurity. That could translate to a misguided decision that could leave you filled with regret and disappointment. Before you consider what you want and need to do, Moonchild, you need to settle into the right state of mind. You need to first ascertain what you really do want and need, and then you have to empower yourself by finding balance and a sense of confidence. That will lead you to do the best thing you can do for yourself and others. ---- 不要在一个怀有戒心的心态下企图去做一个重要的决定。如果你这麽做了，到头来最 终是基於在一个愤怒，不满，报复或甚至是一个没安全感下所作的一个选择。那有可 能转变成一个误导的决定，并且使你充满着後悔及失望。在你需要做及想要去做什麽 样的事情之前，月之子，你要让你自己思绪处在正确的状态。首先你要确定需要及想 要的东西是哪些，再来藉由找寻之间的平衡及自信心来提升自己。那才会使你自己或 是为了其它人能够做出最棒的事情。 ---- 渣翻求指点。 --

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