You may have what you think is a very fixed opinion on an issue you're dealing with that involves another person, Moonchild. You may think that you would never change your mind or even bend a bit, but there could be some room for compromise and deeper understanding if you are open to it. A candid conversation without pretense or posturing or any sense of threat will help you get down to the bottom of what's happening. If you really want to learn where another person is coming from you will have to be sincere and unguarded. You may find that your position will shift somewhat and that would be great for both of you. ---- 對於涉及處理另一個人的爭議時，你也許己經有著固定的見解了，月之子。你也許 認為著你絕對不會改變想法或甚至做出讓步，但如果你對爭議徜開心胸的話，那麼 妥協並且能更深入的了解，是有著這麼樣的空間的。不虛偽，不賣弄，不帶是任何 威脅氛圍的誠懇對話，將會幫助你好好談論問題發生的源頭。如果你想了解這號人 物的感受，那你必須真誠並且放下戒心。你也許將會無意中發現到你的定位變換了 ，並且那對你們二位來說是件好事。 ---- 同理心。 --

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