You may have what you think is a very fixed opinion on an issue you're dealing with that involves another person, Moonchild. You may think that you would never change your mind or even bend a bit, but there could be some room for compromise and deeper understanding if you are open to it. A candid conversation without pretense or posturing or any sense of threat will help you get down to the bottom of what's happening. If you really want to learn where another person is coming from you will have to be sincere and unguarded. You may find that your position will shift somewhat and that would be great for both of you. ---- 对於涉及处理另一个人的争议时，你也许己经有着固定的见解了，月之子。你也许 认为着你绝对不会改变想法或甚至做出让步，但如果你对争议徜开心胸的话，那麽 妥协并且能更深入的了解，是有着这麽样的空间的。不虚伪，不卖弄，不带是任何 威胁氛围的诚恳对话，将会帮助你好好谈论问题发生的源头。如果你想了解这号人 物的感受，那你必须真诚并且放下戒心。你也许将会无意中发现到你的定位变换了 ，并且那对你们二位来说是件好事。 ---- 同理心。 --

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