oyce619 (joyce) 看板CCRomance
標題[認真] Mr. AT and respect
時間Sun Mar 28 12:18:57 2010
1.是否已在板上發表自介文? 是/否yes
2.自介文文章代碼為?#1BexYDEP
3.未填寫者將會進行鎖文第八篇
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so my wife got upset about people disrespecting taiwanese girls that date
foreigners, calling them sluts, easy, blah blah blah blah etc.
hahahaha, well first, my wife and I met with a ONS, and (even though she'll
say no) DAMN she was easy. I didn't even have to say hi. But here we are,
two years later, still together, married, planning things, doing married
stuff.
So, you never know where you'll find love.
So, now I have to yell at two poeple - #1 the girls that complain that people
call taiwanese girls easy, sluts, and that the men they like are
terrible, and being with a foreigner is bad blah blah blah.
So you girls that are whining about people being mean to you, stop that.
Those sour men sitting at home, with/or without girlfriends, looking at
cross culture relation posts so they can write things to make people upset
(possibly for fun, i think it's funny when I make somebody angry on the
internet), are not important.
But if it still bothers you, let me teach you something about argueing
(arguing?), and I'm going to use my wife as an example.
Somebody says that she's a slut for being with a foreigner, and she defends
herself by saying -
"no i'm not, I like my husband because of who he is, not because he's
a foreigner," "yes we had sex but we still got married," and "I'm not a slut
or easy because I love him" (she still was easy), and other things to justify
not being a slut.
Another thing she did was that, when she wrote about our marraige and somebody
tried to tell her that foreign men are bad and will cheat, steal their money,
blah blah blah, she was like . . . "I call him all the time" "I have his
debit card" and "He shows me his pay sheet from work." and other things
to JUSTIFY (this word is important) that her marraige with a foreigner is
okay.
Ladies!! Stop trying to justify/defend yourselves! and stop pretending that
people are going to respect you just because you ask nicely. Who are other
people to tell you that you are a slut, or easy, or you are doing something
wrong. Bullshit. Maybe you are easy, maybe you sleep with a few guys, so
what? That's you, not them. They can sleep with as many people as they want
to, (or stay with their current 0). They can't tell you that you are bad.
And you can't defend yourself in an argument because you can't win. If
somebody tells you that you are stupid, you can't say "no I'm not". They will
still find a way to call you stupid. If somebody calls you a slut, you can't
say "no i'm not". They'll still find a way to call you a slut.
But what you can do is tell them that their dumb and show them why.
.
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1F:→ Mssecret:joyce! 我要跟妳老公作朋友! 03/28 13:14
2F:推 catmiu:joyce,你老公很正點,我也想跟他做朋友,還有你們的狗 03/28 13:41
3F:推 meril:i like your point about how to argue. everyone should be 03/28 14:46
4F:→ meril:confident enough to NOT justify or explain to anybody 03/28 14:46
5F:→ meril:who are only interested in insulting you. 女孩向前走! XD 03/28 14:47
6F:推 Fruitless:AWESOME! 這篇看得我大笑 03/28 15:42
7F:推 stool:我也要跟你老公做朋友 hahaha 03/28 15:50
8F:推 phoebe1989:i like it!! joyce, u pick up a great guy. 03/28 16:32
9F:→ joyce619:大家都想跟他做朋友,那我呢???哭哭,改天約版聚啦~~ 03/28 16:50
10F:推 stool:哈哈我也想跟你做朋友啊! 哎你是雙子的嘛..我也是耶 03/28 16:56
11F:→ joyce619:今天看的太生氣了,就把我老公挖起來,因為有人說都是台女 03/28 17:04
12F:→ joyce619:在板上,我就想說那外國人是怎麼看這件事的,就叫他寫 03/28 17:05
13F:推 stool:我也有逼問我男朋友 哈哈 還好他回得也讓我很滿意XD 03/28 17:06
14F:→ joyce619:他說什麼阿??? 03/28 17:12
15F:推 xflybutter:*o* hey anderon baby LOL 03/28 17:16
16F:推 ogelo:"you can't win" can't agree more 03/28 17:20
17F:推 ddqqa:我男朋友說 要跟妳老公做朋友XD 還說要學用PTT= = 03/28 17:21
18F:→ joyce619:沒問題,那約你男友出來阿,我老公都沒朋友在台灣 03/28 17:30
19F:→ joyce619:我中文文法退步,我老公在台灣都沒朋友!!! 03/28 17:31
20F:推 eva9272:他跟羅羅說的好像阿~哈哈哈~不虧都是美國人~~ 03/28 17:33
21F:推 ddqqa:可是我男朋友在澳洲嗚嗚嗚嗚嗚嗚 03/28 18:24
22F:→ joyce619:哈哈,那我們就隔空交友好了 03/28 18:51
23F:推 ocean511:後半段真是大笑了 XD mranderson是駭客任務的梗嗎 XD 03/28 20:17
24F:推 ocean511:哈 原來不是 是真的有這個小白 03/28 20:20
25F:推 Mssecret:重點是MR. Anderson好像看不懂捏 好可憐喔 03/28 20:26
26F:→ joyce619:我也覺得他不懂.我們該翻譯給他嗎?? 03/28 20:43
27F:推 Mssecret:我好懶喔 /_\ 03/28 21:13
28F:→ joyce619:他應該也根本不想看的懂啦,我該廳你的當做沒看到別回應 03/28 21:14
29F:推 avenirr:靠整個超中肯...! XDD 我也馬上抓我男友來看... 03/28 21:25
30F:推 avenirr:我男友的回答讓我笑死 (但完全不能寫上來會被鄉民鞭..) 03/28 21:47
31F:推 emiliaemily:說得好啊…好文大推!!! 03/28 22:27
32F:推 babbitt1007:內容有謾罵,請刪除P.4的謾罵字彙。 03/29 01:35
33F:推 Picotee:請大家理性,板主辛苦了 03/29 01:39
34F:→ joyce619:誰可以教我修改一下阿,還是怎麼刪除,我不會用ㄟ 03/29 01:45
※ 編輯: joyce619 來自: 115.81.68.73 (03/29 01:53)
35F:→ joyce619:麻煩版主幫我看一下,我剩下的這些可以嗎??不好意思喔!! 03/29 01:54
※ 編輯: joyce619 來自: 115.81.68.73 (03/29 02:10)
36F:推 Nefertari520:JOYCE好乖~~~!!(摸摸頭) 03/29 02:12
37F:→ joyce619:謝謝喔,下次我會更注意的,大家抱歉!! 03/29 02:14
38F:推 babbitt1007::) 謝謝配合 03/29 02:59
39F:推 marsfran:中肯得要命!!!!很瀟灑的態度我喜歡~!! 03/29 03:15
40F:→ alavie:太欣賞(純欣賞喔)妳老公了!!! 03/29 17:28
41F:推 ally815:超棒的老公耶!好man好man ^^ 03/29 19:17
42F:→ Mssecret:再來說一次,我家太陽剛剛又說覺得joyce老公真的很偉大 03/29 23:16