oyce619 (joyce) 看板CCRomance
标题[认真] Mr. AT and respect
时间Sun Mar 28 12:18:57 2010
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so my wife got upset about people disrespecting taiwanese girls that date
foreigners, calling them sluts, easy, blah blah blah blah etc.
hahahaha, well first, my wife and I met with a ONS, and (even though she'll
say no) DAMN she was easy. I didn't even have to say hi. But here we are,
two years later, still together, married, planning things, doing married
stuff.
So, you never know where you'll find love.
So, now I have to yell at two poeple - #1 the girls that complain that people
call taiwanese girls easy, sluts, and that the men they like are
terrible, and being with a foreigner is bad blah blah blah.
So you girls that are whining about people being mean to you, stop that.
Those sour men sitting at home, with/or without girlfriends, looking at
cross culture relation posts so they can write things to make people upset
(possibly for fun, i think it's funny when I make somebody angry on the
internet), are not important.
But if it still bothers you, let me teach you something about argueing
(arguing?), and I'm going to use my wife as an example.
Somebody says that she's a slut for being with a foreigner, and she defends
herself by saying -
"no i'm not, I like my husband because of who he is, not because he's
a foreigner," "yes we had sex but we still got married," and "I'm not a slut
or easy because I love him" (she still was easy), and other things to justify
not being a slut.
Another thing she did was that, when she wrote about our marraige and somebody
tried to tell her that foreign men are bad and will cheat, steal their money,
blah blah blah, she was like . . . "I call him all the time" "I have his
debit card" and "He shows me his pay sheet from work." and other things
to JUSTIFY (this word is important) that her marraige with a foreigner is
okay.
Ladies!! Stop trying to justify/defend yourselves! and stop pretending that
people are going to respect you just because you ask nicely. Who are other
people to tell you that you are a slut, or easy, or you are doing something
wrong. Bullshit. Maybe you are easy, maybe you sleep with a few guys, so
what? That's you, not them. They can sleep with as many people as they want
to, (or stay with their current 0). They can't tell you that you are bad.
And you can't defend yourself in an argument because you can't win. If
somebody tells you that you are stupid, you can't say "no I'm not". They will
still find a way to call you stupid. If somebody calls you a slut, you can't
say "no i'm not". They'll still find a way to call you a slut.
But what you can do is tell them that their dumb and show them why.
.
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1F:→ Mssecret:joyce! 我要跟你老公作朋友! 03/28 13:14
2F:推 catmiu:joyce,你老公很正点,我也想跟他做朋友,还有你们的狗 03/28 13:41
3F:推 meril:i like your point about how to argue. everyone should be 03/28 14:46
4F:→ meril:confident enough to NOT justify or explain to anybody 03/28 14:46
5F:→ meril:who are only interested in insulting you. 女孩向前走! XD 03/28 14:47
6F:推 Fruitless:AWESOME! 这篇看得我大笑 03/28 15:42
7F:推 stool:我也要跟你老公做朋友 hahaha 03/28 15:50
8F:推 phoebe1989:i like it!! joyce, u pick up a great guy. 03/28 16:32
9F:→ joyce619:大家都想跟他做朋友,那我呢???哭哭,改天约版聚啦~~ 03/28 16:50
10F:推 stool:哈哈我也想跟你做朋友啊! 哎你是双子的嘛..我也是耶 03/28 16:56
11F:→ joyce619:今天看的太生气了,就把我老公挖起来,因为有人说都是台女 03/28 17:04
12F:→ joyce619:在板上,我就想说那外国人是怎麽看这件事的,就叫他写 03/28 17:05
13F:推 stool:我也有逼问我男朋友 哈哈 还好他回得也让我很满意XD 03/28 17:06
14F:→ joyce619:他说什麽阿??? 03/28 17:12
15F:推 xflybutter:*o* hey anderon baby LOL 03/28 17:16
16F:推 ogelo:"you can't win" can't agree more 03/28 17:20
17F:推 ddqqa:我男朋友说 要跟你老公做朋友XD 还说要学用PTT= = 03/28 17:21
18F:→ joyce619:没问题,那约你男友出来阿,我老公都没朋友在台湾 03/28 17:30
19F:→ joyce619:我中文文法退步,我老公在台湾都没朋友!!! 03/28 17:31
20F:推 eva9272:他跟罗罗说的好像阿~哈哈哈~不亏都是美国人~~ 03/28 17:33
21F:推 ddqqa:可是我男朋友在澳洲呜呜呜呜呜呜 03/28 18:24
22F:→ joyce619:哈哈,那我们就隔空交友好了 03/28 18:51
23F:推 ocean511:後半段真是大笑了 XD mranderson是骇客任务的梗吗 XD 03/28 20:17
24F:推 ocean511:哈 原来不是 是真的有这个小白 03/28 20:20
25F:推 Mssecret:重点是MR. Anderson好像看不懂捏 好可怜喔 03/28 20:26
26F:→ joyce619:我也觉得他不懂.我们该翻译给他吗?? 03/28 20:43
27F:推 Mssecret:我好懒喔 /_\ 03/28 21:13
28F:→ joyce619:他应该也根本不想看的懂啦,我该厅你的当做没看到别回应 03/28 21:14
29F:推 avenirr:靠整个超中肯...! XDD 我也马上抓我男友来看... 03/28 21:25
30F:推 avenirr:我男友的回答让我笑死 (但完全不能写上来会被乡民鞭..) 03/28 21:47
31F:推 emiliaemily:说得好啊…好文大推!!! 03/28 22:27
32F:推 babbitt1007:内容有谩骂,请删除P.4的谩骂字汇。 03/29 01:35
33F:推 Picotee:请大家理性,板主辛苦了 03/29 01:39
34F:→ joyce619:谁可以教我修改一下阿,还是怎麽删除,我不会用ㄟ 03/29 01:45
※ 编辑: joyce619 来自: 115.81.68.73 (03/29 01:53)
35F:→ joyce619:麻烦版主帮我看一下,我剩下的这些可以吗??不好意思喔!! 03/29 01:54
※ 编辑: joyce619 来自: 115.81.68.73 (03/29 02:10)
36F:推 Nefertari520:JOYCE好乖~~~!!(摸摸头) 03/29 02:12
37F:→ joyce619:谢谢喔,下次我会更注意的,大家抱歉!! 03/29 02:14
38F:推 babbitt1007::) 谢谢配合 03/29 02:59
39F:推 marsfran:中肯得要命!!!!很潇洒的态度我喜欢~!! 03/29 03:15
40F:→ alavie:太欣赏(纯欣赏喔)你老公了!!! 03/29 17:28
41F:推 ally815:超棒的老公耶!好man好man ^^ 03/29 19:17
42F:→ Mssecret:再来说一次,我家太阳刚刚又说觉得joyce老公真的很伟大 03/29 23:16