http://goo.gl/bgpjBX When a friend or loved one gets in a bind, it is only natural that your will feel protective of them and want to defend them. But before you leap in front of them and do your best impression of a mother bear protecting her cubs, stop and wait for them to ask you to help them. Chances are, they won't. You cannot take responsibility for other people, no matter how much you think they need your help. Let them fight their own battles and learn from their own mistakes. 當友人或愛人陷入麻煩，你很自然地產生一股保護欲，想要守護他們。但在你急著把他們 擋到身後，極盡全能像隻保護幼仔的母熊前，停下來，等他們開口求助。 求助的可能性，是零。不論你多確信他們需要你的幫忙，你都不能承擔別人的責任。讓他 們為自己奮戰，並從自己失敗中學習。 http://goo.gl/hPt3AK With so much tension in the air, it's no wonder you're finding it hard to concentrate on work. Try to take time out of your day to work out what's most important to you. 空氣中瀰漫著焦慮，也難怪你發現自己很難專心工作。從今天抽出點時間，去釐清什麼對 你最重要。 http://goo.gl/eoVxUw Today is a good day to simply get things done, Aries. Take care of the annoying tasks that have been accumulating. You have a great opportunity to accomplish a lot. People are less concerned with frivolous drivel and gossip than they are with setting a plan to meet an important goal. Contribute to this trend by getting serious about the tasks at hand. 今天是個容易搞定事情的好日子。好好打理那些持續累積的惱人任務，你有很高的機會完 成一大半呢。人們不再那麼關心無聊的瞎扯蛋或八卦，他們正規劃要達成重要的目標。趁 著這股風氣，認真看待手邊的任務。 --

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