作者wesley1234 (nana)
看板Aries
標題[情報] 7/19 the daily horoscopes
時間Sat Jul 19 10:53:10 2014
The needs of another person have taken over and eclipsed your own needs.
You have sacrificed your own time and energy - and perhaps your own
happiness - to do something or to work on behalf of someone else.
It may have started as an isolated incident; the answer to a need.
But it evolved into a habit, and now it has become more of an obligation.
But it doesn't have to be that way. It can change - and it should change.
Slowly ease yourself out of it, Aries. That doesn't mean you have to
abandon the relationship.
It just means that you have to take your own space back.
你自己的需求，已經因為你太過於注重對某人的需求而侵蝕掉了，
你已經犧牲了你的時間和精力，也許還有些你自己的快樂，
你可以去幫助其他人，而不是去做一些專屬於他/她的事情，，
也許這一切都開始於一個偶發事件，但是這需求，已經變成了一種習慣，
到現在甚至變成一種義務，其實你可以不必這麼做，這是可以改變的，
而且也應該被改變，羊兒們～試著從中慢下腳步，
但不是要你拋棄整段關係，這只代表你必須找屬於自己的時間
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1F：推 pandayu:太過注重對某人的需求嗎，好像是，羊男一投入就會什麼好的 07/19 11:12
2F：→ pandayu:都給她，就怕給的不夠 07/19 11:13
3F：推 gc9v: 07/19 11:20
4F：推 yychuan:推翻譯～ 07/19 11:21
5F：推 cecum:真的慢慢變成習慣了!!好準!! 07/19 11:30
6F：推 joki:真的好準 07/19 11:48
7F：推 yunww:已經變成義務。真的累了。真希望能被珍惜............ 07/19 12:00
8F：推 sink5566:好準，真的要放慢腳步了。加油。 07/19 12:08
9F：推 ananbig:好準 07/19 12:31
10F：推 ownnina:超準-0- 07/19 12:59
11F：推 qi3qi3:無感。推翻譯 07/19 13:13
12F：推 homeless323:推 我還可以! 07/19 13:25
13F：推 haha0328:好準好可憐... 07/19 14:16
14F：推 kayla6132:準到想哭呵呵 07/19 14:18
15F：推 zzz406:準準...羊羊們加油阿！！ 07/19 14:22
16F：推 topmobel:準到我要哭了 羊兒們加油!! 07/19 15:40
17F：→ wesley1234:大家好像都很準，但我完全無感xdd 07/19 17:03
18F：推 thisisabbie:推 找回自己的時間>< 07/19 19:29
19F：推 cindytu:真的QAQ 慢慢失去自我，開始累了 07/19 20:29
20F：推 LeBeau:準 07/19 21:32
21F：推 Goodwhite:準 07/19 22:22
22F：推 AVIDITY:推 努力付出卻不被對方珍惜 好累 07/19 22:34
23F：推 Trent11:一語中的 07/20 10:47
24F：推 WeilinWu:不~~~~~ 07/20 12:42
25F：推 ch420:天啊覺得有被打醒的感覺...>_< 07/20 18:31