作者wesley1234 (nana)
看板Aries
标题[情报] 7/19 the daily horoscopes
时间Sat Jul 19 10:53:10 2014
The needs of another person have taken over and eclipsed your own needs.
You have sacrificed your own time and energy - and perhaps your own
happiness - to do something or to work on behalf of someone else.
It may have started as an isolated incident; the answer to a need.
But it evolved into a habit, and now it has become more of an obligation.
But it doesn't have to be that way. It can change - and it should change.
Slowly ease yourself out of it, Aries. That doesn't mean you have to
abandon the relationship.
It just means that you have to take your own space back.
你自己的需求，已经因为你太过於注重对某人的需求而侵蚀掉了，
你已经牺牲了你的时间和精力，也许还有些你自己的快乐，
你可以去帮助其他人，而不是去做一些专属於他/她的事情，，
也许这一切都开始於一个偶发事件，但是这需求，已经变成了一种习惯，
到现在甚至变成一种义务，其实你可以不必这麽做，这是可以改变的，
而且也应该被改变，羊儿们～试着从中慢下脚步，
但不是要你抛弃整段关系，这只代表你必须找属於自己的时间
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1F：推 pandayu:太过注重对某人的需求吗，好像是，羊男一投入就会什麽好的 07/19 11:12
2F：→ pandayu:都给她，就怕给的不够 07/19 11:13
3F：推 gc9v: 07/19 11:20
4F：推 yychuan:推翻译～ 07/19 11:21
5F：推 cecum:真的慢慢变成习惯了!!好准!! 07/19 11:30
6F：推 joki:真的好准 07/19 11:48
7F：推 yunww:已经变成义务。真的累了。真希望能被珍惜............ 07/19 12:00
8F：推 sink5566:好准，真的要放慢脚步了。加油。 07/19 12:08
9F：推 ananbig:好准 07/19 12:31
10F：推 ownnina:超准-0- 07/19 12:59
11F：推 qi3qi3:无感。推翻译 07/19 13:13
12F：推 homeless323:推 我还可以! 07/19 13:25
13F：推 haha0328:好准好可怜... 07/19 14:16
14F：推 kayla6132:准到想哭呵呵 07/19 14:18
15F：推 zzz406:准准...羊羊们加油阿！！ 07/19 14:22
16F：推 topmobel:准到我要哭了 羊儿们加油!! 07/19 15:40
17F：→ wesley1234:大家好像都很准，但我完全无感xdd 07/19 17:03
18F：推 thisisabbie:推 找回自己的时间>< 07/19 19:29
19F：推 cindytu:真的QAQ 慢慢失去自我，开始累了 07/19 20:29
20F：推 LeBeau:准 07/19 21:32
21F：推 Goodwhite:准 07/19 22:22
22F：推 AVIDITY:推 努力付出却不被对方珍惜 好累 07/19 22:34
23F：推 Trent11:一语中的 07/20 10:47
24F：推 WeilinWu:不~~~~~ 07/20 12:42
25F：推 ch420:天啊觉得有被打醒的感觉...>_< 07/20 18:31