You may be trying to establish a firm boundary between you and someone you car e about. Although you love this person, maybe they are known to invade your pe rsonal business too often, or maybe they are always telling you what is best f or you - but you need to draw a line. Don't allow anyone to manipulate you int o pushing those boundaries aside, or to not expect them to be respected. Somet imes tough love is the best way to protect a relationship, even if it doesn't seem so at that time. 你可能試著在某個你在乎的人之間建立嚴格的邊界。雖然你愛這個人，但也許他們太常侵 犯你的個人事務，或者他們總是告訴你什麽才是對你最好的-而你需要劃出彼此的界線。 不要允許任何人操縱你來改變你的底線，或者不要期待他們會學會尊重。有時候強硬手段 是保護一段關係的最好方法，就算看起來並不是那樣。 --

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