You may be trying to establish a firm boundary between you and someone you car e about. Although you love this person, maybe they are known to invade your pe rsonal business too often, or maybe they are always telling you what is best f or you - but you need to draw a line. Don't allow anyone to manipulate you int o pushing those boundaries aside, or to not expect them to be respected. Somet imes tough love is the best way to protect a relationship, even if it doesn't seem so at that time. 你可能试着在某个你在乎的人之间建立严格的边界。虽然你爱这个人，但也许他们太常侵 犯你的个人事务，或者他们总是告诉你什麽才是对你最好的-而你需要划出彼此的界线。 不要允许任何人操纵你来改变你的底线，或者不要期待他们会学会尊重。有时候强硬手段 是保护一段关系的最好方法，就算看起来并不是那样。 --

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