摘自电影＜One True Thing＞（亲情无价）： You make concessions when you're married a long time...that you don't believe you'll make when you're beginning. When you're young , you say, "Oh, I'll never tolerate...this or that or the other thing." But time goes by, darling. And when you've slept together a thousand nights...and you've smelled like spit-up from the babies when they're sick...and you've seen your body droop and get soft...and some nights you just think, "Oh, God, I'm not gonna put up with it another minute." But you wake up in the next morning...and the kitchen smells like coffee...and the kids have their hair brushed all by themselves...and you look at your husband, and no...he's not the person you thought he was. But he's your life. And the kids and the house and everything that you do is built around him. And that's your life. That's your history too. And if you take him out, that's like cutting his face out of all the pictures. It just makes a big hole and it ruins everything.You can be hard, Ellen. And you can be very judgmental. And with those two things alone you're gonna make such a mess out of your life.you wouldn't believe, and I wanna be able to tell you these things in ten years.And when I think how most of what you learned so far came from your dad it just hurts my heart to think how little I have done. 网路上的翻译： 当你已结婚许久，你会开始让步，那是开始时你无法相信自己会做的事，当你年轻时你 会说：「我绝对容许不了这些那些事。」但时光飞逝，亲爱的当你们已共枕了千个夜晚 ，当你们因孩子生病而满身秽物，当你们看到彼此的身躯老化松弛，在某些夜晚你会想： 「我绝不再忍受一分钟。」但是你会在早晨醒来，厨房会飘着咖啡香，孩子已自己梳好头 发，你会看着你丈夫，不错，他并非你想像的那样，但他是你的生命，你的孩子，你的家 ，全是以他为轴心，那是你的生命，也是你的历史。若是你将他的去除，就会像把他的脸 从照片上剪去般，那只会跑出个大洞并破坏一切。你可以严厉、你也可以批判，但只要这 两项就足以让你的生命永无宁日。你不会相信，我这些话憋了十年，每当我想到你至今所 学到的一切大多来自你爸爸，我就会心痛的想到...我做的那麽少。 好喜欢Meryl Streep <3 --

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