※ 引述《feynchard (心的方向)》之铭言： : 1、人都是逻辑不通、不讲道理、只顾自己的。但不管怎样，还是要爱人。 : 2、你做好事，别人说你是为自己打算。但不管怎样，还是要做好事。 : 3、你成功以後，会获得假朋友和真敌人。但不管怎样，还是要成功。 : 4、你今天所行的善事，明天就会被遗忘。但不管怎样，还是要行善。 : 5、诚实与坦率待人，常使你受到伤害。但不管怎样，还是要诚实坦率。 : 6、眼光远大的人，会被心胸狭隘的小人打击。但不管怎样，还是要眼光远大。 : 7、人都会同情弱者，可是只追随赢家。但不管怎样，还是要为弱者奋斗。 : 8、你多年建立起来的东西，极可能毁於一旦。但不管怎样，还是要建设。 : 9、别人急需帮助，你帮了忙以後竟然被他们攻击。但不管怎样，还是要助人。 : 10、你把最好的自己献给了世界，却大大受挫。但不管怎样，还是要献上最好的你。 这本书，章跟章间还有一些小标，顺便附上。 The world doesn't make sense,but you can make sense. -这世界不讲道理，但你可以讲道理。 If you can find personal meaning without the world's applause,you are free. -如果你不需要这世界给你掌声，你也能够找到生活的意义，那麽你就自由了。 Love is the greatest gift that we can give. -爱人，是我们送给别人最佳的礼物。 Love is not about approval or worthiness. -爱不是一件可以用肯不肯定、值不值得来看待的事。 Sometimes people appear to be illogical and unreasonable,when they are simply using a different logic and a different method of reasoning. They may have different worldviews,or different experiences,or see a different set of facts than we do. -有时候，别人看起来毫无道理可言，这时，他们只不过是出於一套与别人不同的逻辑和 道理，或者采用了一种不同的世界观，或者看到了我们没有看到的事。 People who act on their own selfish ulterior motives commonly accuse others of doing the same thing. -那些常常指责别人做某些事是出於自私动机的人，自己往往才是循私在做事。 You still need to do what is right and good and ture. That is where personal meaning and satisfaction are to be found. -你还是要做你认为正确的、良善的、纯正的事–你会从中找到生命的意义与满足感。 You would not always be the director. You would not always be in the public limelight. You would not always be in a position of influence. -你不会永远是一级主管、不会永远在镁光灯下、不会永远坐在可以呼风唤雨的位置上。 You should be kind to the people you meet on the way up,because they are the same people you will be seeing again on your way down. -你在得意时所遇到的人，要对他们好一点，因为等你失意的时候，你还会遇到他们。 People who become "successful" learn that they have "personal" friends and "positional" friends. -获得「成功」的人会慢慢发现，朋友分成「私人」朋友和「局面」朋友两种。 The people who attack you may be struggling with their unhappiness at the way their own lives have turned out. The attack really isn't about you–it's about them. -那些出手打击你的人，也许正在为自己生活里的不愉快而挣扎。 他们攻击你，真的与你无关，却是与他们自己有关。 If you don't treat them as your enemies,you make it easier for them to someday become your allies and friends. -如果你不把他们当敌人看，那麽将来有一天，你比较有机会使他们跟你站在同一边， 变成你的朋友。 Treat enemies as potential allies and friends. -你要把今日的敌人看作明日可能的朋友。 If you are living authentically generously, you won't worry about whether anybody else knows or remembers. -假如你活得真实而豁达，你就不在乎别人知不知道或记不记得你做过好事。 Some of foundations for you own success were laid by your predecessors. That was their gift to you. -在你所获得的成功里面，有一些基础是前人为你打下的，是他们送你的礼物。 Many of the best things we can do for each other are little things that bring a smile,or lift the spirits,as we go through daily life together. -我们能为彼些所作的最好的事，不过是那些在日常生活里能让人扬起微笑、打起精神的 小事。 Do good for its own sake. Do good because it is part who you are. -做好事，只是为了你要做好事。 做好事，因为这是你之所以为你。 But vulnerability can be good. When you are vulnerable,it is easier conncet with people,get to know them,and learn from them. -容易受伤也可以是好事。你假如容易受伤，你就比较容易与人结交，进一步认识对方， 从别人身上学习。 With the suit of armor, you can only grow so much,and then you have to get out of your armor if you want to grow any further. -假如你披戴盔甲，你就只能成长那麽多。如果你想进一步成长，你就得抛开盔甲。 What makes the person a "small person" is simply that he or she sees life in very small terms.A small person does't see very far beyond his own life,his own organization,his own place,and time. -一个人会是「小人」，只因他用非常窄小的角度看待人生。小人的眼界，越不过自己的 生活范围、自己的工作场所、自已的空间与时间。 We have big problems,and we need big solutions. We need people who can see better world beyond the status quo. -我们有很多大问题，需要大的解决方案。我们需要能够越过现状，预见美好未来的人。 （真希望台面上的决策者都能看到这句话。） If your big idea is shot down, simply pick it up,dust if off,and get on moving again. -万一你所怀抱的大想法被人阻截，你就再把它舍起，拍掉它上面所蒙的尘埃，继续前进。 Not every underdog is right,and not every underdog's issues are important. But some are. -不是所有的弱者所遇到的问题都是对的，也不是所有弱者遇到的问是都是重大的。 不过有一些弱者和他们所遇到的问题是值得重视的。 When you look back at the end of your life,you may conclude that fighting for a few underdogs was one of the most meaningful things you ever did. -将来，回顾一生，说不定你会说，帮助过那几个弱势者的忙，是你所做最有意义的事。 The joy,the meaning,the satisfaction are in the building. -真是的喜税、意义和满足感，在於「建立」的过程。 We had our moment in the time. If it was meaningful,we have reason to greateful. -我们曾经拥有属於自己的时光，只要那是有意义的时光，我们就可以觉得感激。 Of course,it is gratifying when what you have built lasts far into the future. But don't fogo building just because it may not last. -假如你所建立的事物能够永存於未来，那当然让人得意。 但别因它可能无法长久就不愿意建立。 Knowing when we need help,and knowing where to find it,are basic to our survival and happiness. -懂得何时可以向别人求助，以及应该向谁求助，是我们求得生存和获得快乐的基本能力。 We need to help others in ways that support their dignity and preserve their options. -我们在帮助他人时，要维护他人的尊严，为他们保留余地。 If you aren't giving your best,you aren't who you are supposed to be. -假如你不尽全力付出，你将会付出更高的代价。因为–你就不是你了。 If you're not giving the world your best,what would are you saving it for? -假如你不把最好的自己呈现给这个世界，你打算对哪个世界尽力？ When you help people in both big and little ways, you know that you are not living in vain. -当你用或大或小的方式帮助了别人，你会知道你没有白活。 Nothing is more important than what happens to the children. -发生在孩子身上的事，是最重要的事。 《The Paradoxical Commandments》 --

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