※ 引述《leefengyuh (不乖的孩子 光荣的困境)》之铭言： : 随便举个例来说(若有冒犯当事人请来信告知 我自D 不要上法院告我) : 蒋x柏 vs 连x文 : 一样是家世显赫公子哥 : 外表不同 受到的注意就是不一样 时尚杂志访问蒋的频率大於连太多了 I think you ignored their jobs. Lam works for some investment bankings like Morgan Stanley, and he is the chief for Taipei MRT. Chiang works as a fashion designer That's an important fact why Chiang gets more opportunities to be reported by fashion related magazines : 假设他们都投胎在普通人家 少了由家世所建构出的"学历+金钱"的光环 : 蒋只会是穷了点 英文烂了点 学历差了点 一样不愁没正妹 : 还是可以有不错的"受重视待遇" : 还是有机会娶到医院院长的美女女儿＋偶像剧演员老婆（当然少了家世 机率会降低一些） : 连呢? : MY主观ANSWER:除非有奇蹟 : 不然很大机会是个整天在电脑前抓A片打手枪的普通阿宅 : 娶到蔡X珊的机会 不好意思 不是跟蒋一样的降低而已 而必是= 0/100 : 和现在在社会受到的重视程度 天差地远 I admire your answer, but the real world is not that simple. I mean, most people have their strength and weekness, so you must judge it, and everyone has his or her own focus. Thus, the answer does not alway go as you expect. : 因为"人不肤浅枉为人" 在怎麽後天教育 也不可能完全消除这个"天性"AND"兽性" : 我也是极肤浅的一员 即使我受了很高的教育 且对自己的人生满怀梦想且一步步在 : 实现 : 我只是二级的路人脸 虽不是太帅 但自知即使满脸胡渣的宅样也不特别难看 : 加上没有身高体重的困扰(177CM 70KG) : 有时神韵蛮像某个偶像 在某些人眼中会意外上升到上述"漂亮脸=受重视"境界而 : 受到因外表吃香的待遇 但每次遇到这些情况 心中没有太大喜悦 I think you're just too greedy However, it is a good way for you to retrospect yourself. : 反而知道"帅到掉渣"的帅哥 和 自己 根本就活在二个世界 : 加上小弟有几个"帅到掉渣"朋友 每次和他们在一起 就感受的到女孩子对他们的态度比 : 对我热情 心里难免不是滋味(没办法 这是我的劣根性) : 即使当时有稳定交往的女友 还是在乎别的女孩对自己的态度 I would say that you're so childish to behave like this. You don't have to care about this because there are always monsters, in my definition, those who are super handsome and still got lots of advantages, in this world. Just be yourself, you'll be happier. : 我每次转开电视看到他时 : 就在思考：小弟虽非特别优秀之人 但一些表现也不比他差 但我没这个机会 而他有 : WHY? 不难理解：因为"帅FACE VS 路人FACE"的差别 You might find lots of handsome Caucasian homeless in LA, they are handsome, taller than many rich Asian immigrants, and they belong to the most advantagous race. However, they are still no more than just homeless! : 学生时代每个与书共渡的烦闷夜+出社会後的努力工作+疲劳轰炸累积而来的英语听力 : 可以保有部分价值 不致於悲哀的走上"完全枉费"一途 : 交往多年女友 几年前 没有太多犹豫就当我的面前活生生上了别人的车 转身投向别人怀抱 : 不论我如何说破嘴 哀求他 用尽一切力量对她再好 都没有用 : 让我学到了"当自己不够好时 是留不住人的" : 尤其是在"样样比条件"这个如此现实+残忍的情场 That's your own experience. I've post an article before which talks about selecting your best companion. To select your mate is just as a multi-attribution formula. You could refer to it. I lost to several boys who are not as tall, handsome or smart as me when I was in NTU. They came from normal schools while I'm in the top 1 of Taiwan, and my family is even richer, but I still can't make it. I would say that I appreciate your experience, but that is not necessarily true in the real world. Besides that, are you sure that there's no other reason or other disadvantage of you that drives your ex-girlfriend out? : 和情敌比输了就是只能摸摸鼻子GET OUT说再见 没有第二句话好罗嗦 : 不再傻傻的以为"对她好 她就会一直在身边" 那是因为她还没遇到以她的条件找到更好的 Actaully, there are at least 5 girls around me do not select the best pursuer among their choices. That's why I cannot admit your conclusion. : 打死都要具备外表(真的不够好就来假的 但医生不是神 所以只能加分 不可能有奇蹟 : 不用穿名牌 但起码一定做到乾净整齐不臭不油) : 那时更用功念书 所以後来有不错的学历 : 现在每天更努力工作赚钱 : 更努力把网球打好 中间也学了德语 西语 乐理 : 之前有空就到很多国家旅行 扩展视野 : 也曾待过英语系国家工作 练就了好的英语听力 : 只要能让自己的价值提升 一个小机会我都不放过 I appreciate for your ambition. : 推 diaze:这篇很真实 122.123.195.68 10/22 18:43 ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ I don't think so. There are too many examples I've seen stand againt his conclusion. There is something wrong with my computer, so I can reply only in English, and I apologize for that. --

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