呣呣~你总是很有自知之明，但同时你也会时下的自己感到不满。 有时候，当你做错、或是事情不如预期时，你会开始责备自己、怪罪自己。 接着你会陷入无限的罪恶回圈当中。 但要知道:责备自己让自己愧疚只会打击自信心以及贬低自我价值而已。 试着不要过度批判自己、检讨自己。 多给自己一些犯错的空间。 在你觉得对的时刻、做对的事情，这样就好。 无论发生什麽事，你心中的指针总会指着正确的方向。 注:每个人或多或少都有後悔的经验，後悔着当初不该怎麽做、如何做、或是最好不做。 但这一类的反省往往没有太大意义，原因是事情已铸成，再怎麽责备、反省也只是徒增自 己的困扰、打击自身的自信心罢了。 反省固然重要，但不该成为前进的绊脚石。事实上，反省多数只是成功的茶余饭後，在成 功之余畅谈自己的过去，表面上是因为时刻反省才有今天，实则不然。 没有人可以时时刻刻背负着过去的错往前，当你往前时，眼睛自然是向前而非向後的。 You are very self-aware , Taurus , but you also have a tendence to be very critical of yourself. Sometimes you are so harsh that you blame yourself for things that go wrong that were out of your control. And when you do , you wind up feeling guilty. But blaming yourself in this way can only erode your self-confidence and your feelings of self-worth. Try to be less harsh and judgment of yourself. Give yourself the gift of being more carefree. Doing what you feel is right at any given moment is all you need to do the right thing. Your moral compass can never lead you astray - no matter how things turn out. --

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