某个对你而言很重要的人正在处理一件事情，你想帮忙但却只看到问题的冰山一角而已。 纵使对方并没有恳求或要求你出手相助，或是提供其他意见，呣呣~ 若你能从不同的视域去看待这个问题，那麽这会让你对她现在的感觉更有共鸣，让你能够 深入了解其重要性。 即便你认为自己已经看清楚这件事的全貌，但事实上仍有些地方是你没有掌握到的，除非 你深入去了解它。 对任何人都该如此。 注:偶尔我们会因为迫切想帮助他人解决事情而急於提供援助，但或许在一知半解的情况 下只会造成对方的困然，然而对方又因为人情因素不方便表态。这种恶性循环只会让人际 关系越来越糟。很多事情在出手以前不妨先换位思考，想想他人的处境再决定是否帮忙。 You may only be seeing the tip of the iceberg as you try to understand an issue a loved one is dealing with. Even if the individual does not implore you to try and take a multi-dimensional look at the issue , Taurus , you should. If you can see this from all angles , it will help you empathize with and understand someone else's point of view , which is very important. Even if you turly believe you are seeing the big picture , there are elements that you probably will not see until you take a much deeper look. You owe that to everyone who is involved. --

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