A comment that was recently shared with you - one that was critical - may have come across as disloyal. You may feel hurt or betrayed that someone is criticizing a decision or an effort of yours, but it may be the opposite of what it seems to you. If someone is giving you advice, it is because they believe in you and hope to help you or guide you in some way. Even if what is said is said in a less-than-gentle way, it is meant with the best of intentions. If you listen, you may learn something quite valuable. 你最近听到别人跟你分享的关於你的评论—一个相当严苛的评论—也许会被你认为是 对你不忠的。你可能会因为某个人正在批评你的决定或是努力而觉得受伤了，或者是 被背叛了，可是这或许跟你所认知的恰好相反。如果某个人正在给你建议，这是缘於 他相信你，并且希望能以某种方式来帮助你或是指引你。即便那些言词是被以不太温 和跟委婉的方式说出来，不过他的本意却是最为了你着想的。如果你倾听的话，那你 也许会学到某些相当珍贵的东西。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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