Focusing on what you have in common with someone today - rather than on how diverse your opinions are - will be the key to getting along with that person. You can turn a situation around now if you are open-minded, if you share your deepest thoughts and feelings about a complex matter, and if you concentrate on the many things that you do have in common. By engaging more in your shared interests, you will develop a connection that can transcend problems like this. 今天要专注在你跟某人的共通点上—而不是你们的意见有多麽迥异—这是跟那个人相 处的关键。如果你保持开放的心胸，如果你分享你对某件复杂的事情的最深层想法和 感受，如果你专注在你们的诸多共通点上，那你现在就可以转变某个局势。藉由更加 专注於你们共有的兴趣，你将会发展出可以超越困难的情感关系。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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