You may be spending a lot of your time and energy trying to fix a problem that isn't really your responsibility. You may feel an obligation to this person. You may feel the blame for the problem, even though that probably isn't the case. You may even feel that you should solve this problem so that other things can fall into place. But you haven't made any headway, and you probably won't. The person who is truly responsible will need to take on that role. Get back to your own - more important - responsibilities, Leo. ———————————————————————— 你也许花了很多时间与精力去解决一个其实并不该是你负责的问题。你也许觉得你对这个人有义务负责。你也许感受到了因为这个问题排山倒海而来的指责，即使那可能根本称不上个大事。你甚至还觉得你应该解决这个问题而这样其他事情也能够按部就班。但你还没看到任何曙光，而未来也看不到。让本该为这个问题负责的人尽他的本分。回到你自己的生活-更重要的是-处理好你原本应负起的责任。 ———————————————————————— 懒人包：别当个滥好人 ———————————————————————— 生日快乐，那个曾跟我近在咫尺又远在天边的人 ----- Sent from JPTT on my iPhone --

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