You may be asking someone's permission for making a decision that is really up to you alone. You may think this is the reasonable, courteous, thoughtful thing to do. And while your motives may be admirable, Leo, getting someone else involved could complicate things quite a bit. It's one thing to leave this person out of the situation entirely; but involving them puts an additional burden on that person and on yourself. Consider this instead; Just do the best you can, then lovingly inform the other person when you're sure you know what to do. *** Copyright c Daily Horoscope. Download it now — http://comitic.com/dh ----------------------------------------------------------- 你们也许会将完全取决於你们自己的决定拿去徵求某个人的许可。你们也许会想说这样做 是合理、有礼貌、和体贴的事情，而虽然狮子你们的动机是很令人钦佩的，但让别人也参 与进来可能只会让事情变得有些复杂；让这个人完全脱离这个情况是一回事，而让他们参 杂其中可能会带给你们和对方额外的负担。只要考虑这个就好：去尽自己所能，然後在你 们确定自己知道要做些甚麽时亲切地通知对方就好。 =========================================================== 今日运势摘要： 礼多人不怪。 但做太多又没有明确方向的时候容易变成彼此间的负担喔。 事事向重要的人洽询意见、报告进度是礼貌； 但是要让对方朝我们希望的方向做出决策和给予意见， 我们自己也要先有明确的方向和选项後再去请示， 不然也只是耽误对方和我们自己的时间跟精神呢。 这周要上班上课六天，请大家多多加油罗~XD --

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