A friend may have or may soon confront you over an issue they're upset about. Don't take it personally. They may be defensive because they are worried about the way you will react. If you don't take it personally, dear Gemini, this is a matter that can be easily resolved. Don't read into what is said. If you ar en't sure about what is meant, then ask. By taking a gentle, inquisitive appro ach and by showing a desire to be helpful, the other party will calm down, and a peaceful solution will be possible. 一位朋友也许会因为即将面临令他们烦恼的议题而与你对质。 别把这个当作针对你个人的。 他们也许因为担心你的反应而有所防卫，亲爱的双子们。 如果你不把它当作是针对你个人的，亲爱的双子座， 这件事情就容易被解决。 如果你不确定那是什麽意思，问就对了。 藉由采取温和、好奇的态度和表现出乐於助人的愿望， 对方也会冷静下来，就有可能和平解决问题。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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