You are dealing with emotional pain that has been with you for a long time. It occurred because of something someone said or did to you, and although a lot of time has passed, it still hurts, dear Gemini. You may tell yourself that yo u just have to grin and bear it, but don't kid yourself - that will only allow it to linger. This is something that is holding you back from joy and from co nnecting with others, like scar tissue. You may not be able to reconcile this with the one who caused it, but you can forgive them anyway and understand tha t people who hurt others often hurt themselves. Do this for your own well-bein g. 你正在处理一个伴随你很久的情绪伤痛。 它会发生是因为某个人对你做了或说了些什麽， 虽然时间已经过去很久了，它仍然很痛，亲爱的双子们。 你也许会告诉你自己只要微笑着忍痛它，但是不要欺骗你自己 — 那只会让它挥之不去。 这个是阻止你快乐与他人沟通，就像疤痕组织。 你也许无法将这件事情与造成此事的人调和在一起， 但是无论如何你都可以原谅他们， 并理解伤害别人的人往往也伤害他们自己。 为你自己的福祉而这样子做。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 我觉得如果不能原谅那个伤害你的人也没有关系， 只要把自己先顾好就好了。 --

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