Try to be very mindful today and not care what other people think. You may hav e a natural urge to ask for the opinions of others when you aren't feeling sec ure about your work or your efforts in an important venture. But if you make t he opinions of others more important than your own, dear Gemini, then you are going to become very confused. First, plot out what you want your end result t o be, and then come up with a list of options for yourself on how to attain th at. Only then, when you are satisfied with what you have done, can you ask for feedback - and then only use it to refine or tweak what you've initially plan ned. 今天要非常小心不要去在意其他人的想法。 当你对工作或你未来非常重要的努力感到没有安全感的时候， 你可能会自然而然地寻求其他人的意见。 但是，如果你让别人的意见远远比你自己的意见还要重要，亲爱的双子们， 那麽你就会变得非常困惑。 首先，规划出你所想要的结果是什麽， 然後列出一张清单你要如何去实现它。 只有那时候，当你满足於你自己所做的，你才能寻求反馈， 然後用它来完善或调整你最初的计画。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

※ 发信站: 批踢踢实业坊(ptt.cc), 来自: 1.174.5.75 (台湾) ※ 文章网址: https://webptt.com/cn.aspx?n=bbs/Gemini/M.1694546412.A.EEE.html