Just because someone asks for your opinion on a choice they are making does no t mean they are ready to hear the truth about what you think. Before you choos e to answer someone today, dear Gemini, try to feel the situation out first. A re they truly looking for your insight and your advice, or could they be looki ng just for validation instead? If you think they just want your endorsement o f their choice and you don't feel that you can provide it, you may want to bac k off and remain neutral for your own peace of mind. Give them a chance to be open to constructive criticism. 仅只因为某个人就他们所做的选择向你寻求意见， 并不代表他们准备好要听取你所想表达的真相。 今天，在你选择回答某个人之前，亲爱的双子们， 试着先感受情境。 他们是真的寻求你的见解和建议，或者是他们只是寻求验证而已？ 如果你认为他们只是想要你认可他们的选择 ，而你不想提供给他们， 你可能想要退後一步，为了维持你内心的平静而保持中立。 让他们有机会接受建设性的批评。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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