Self-deprecating commentary is often done in a humorous way. When someone make s fun of their own issues or idiosyncrasies, others might laugh, but what is r eally behind it? You have probably witnessed this behavior in someone you know , Gemini, and thought of it as harmless. But whenever you put yourself down, i t has consequences you may not see right away or ever. You may be working thro ugh something now that you find difficult. Resist the urge to put yourself dow n, even if you do it as a reaction to feeling insecure. Be your own agent and cheering gallery instead. 自我贬抑的评论通常是以幽默的方式进行。 当某个人取笑他们自己的问题或特质时，其他的人也许会笑， 但是背後真正的含意是什麽？ 你曾经大概见证过你认识的某个人这种行为，双子们，并且认为它是无害的。 但是无论何时你将自己贬抑，它可能会产生你不会立即看到或永远看不到的後果。 你也许正在努力处理一些你发现困难的事情。 忍住催促贬抑自己，即使你这麽做是出自於没有安全感的反应。 成为自己的代表和自己的啦啦队。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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