Sometimes selfish people are selfish because they fear others will take from t hem or cheat them. And that kind of thinking can come from way back in their l ife. And if someone has had a profound experience that makes them feel so defe nsive, you can't necessarily change it just because you happen to be a good pe rson. If you are dealing with someone now who is mistrusting of you, and for n o reason whatsoever, don't feel bad about having to show them you can be trust ed, Gemini. Even someone like this can be won over. 有时候自私的人会自私是因为他们害怕其他人会抢走他们的（东西）或者是欺骗他们。 而那种思考可能来自他们很久以前的生活方式。 如果某个人有过深刻的经历，那让你感觉如此防备， 你无法只是因为你恰巧是一个好人就改变它。 如果你正在跟某个人打交道，他不相信你，而且无缘无故， 别因为你必须展示你是值得被信任的而感觉很糟，双子们。 即使像这样的一个人也可能被说服。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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