If you were to take a ride on a rowboat with a friend, and you are the only on e who is rowing, you will probably get wherever you are going at a slower pace than if you were both rowing. That's okay, though - sometimes. Your friend mi ght just need a break or may have the desire to simply enjoy the ride. But if someone's lack of cooperation or help is starting to compromise you in some wa y, Gemini, then you must speak up. There is nothing wrong with expecting someo ne to do their fair share. Don't feel bad if you have to demand it today. 如果你跟朋友一起坐船，你是唯一一个摇桨的人， 你大概会比两个人一起划的速度更慢抵达。 那还好，虽然 - 有时候（会这样子）。 你的朋友也许只是需要休息一下，享受坐船的时光。 但是，如果某些人缺乏合作或者是帮忙，开始用某些方式与你妥协，双子们， 你必须说出来。 期待某个人一起分享工作并没有什麽错。 如果你今天必须要求某个人这麽做，别觉得糟糕。 Ps.如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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