It is really difficult to know someone's sexual orientation because they probably don't know either. Sexual orientation is not a choice. People can't choose to love men or women. I know many people are attracted to some people because of their personality or talents, not to their appearance. If someone adore you too much and make you uncomfortable, you should let them know how you feel. ※ 引述《vivi77999 (绮绮)》之铭言： : I have been wondering something for a very long time. : That is how I can identify one's sexual orietation. : Actually, I was wrong about one of my friends before. : I thought she might adore me to some degree like a girl adores a boy; : however, I get my appearance feminized as possible as I can, since : I don't act like a lady. : You might ask me the reason why I thought her as a lesbian. : (I even take a wild guess that maybe she is a bisexual.) : In fact, I have no idea. Kind of my instinct. I just thought her that way. : (She did really say some sweet words to me in a tone that was irrestible, : sometimes.) : And a few months ago, she had got a boyfriend. : Then she didn't talk to me in that way anymore. : How can I make sure that someone, who is a female, likes me : at the very beginning? : I don't mean to have a lesbian/bisexual partner. : Just out of curiosity, so I offer this question. : Alas! Probably, without being told, I am too stupid to indetify : whether anyone, no matter it's a he or she, likes me or not. --

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