Honesty, I have to congratulate someone who has stable relationship with their lover. They trust each other tremendously so much that could even let one of them think about their future. But sometimes, it’s just your own wishful thinking. We are all implanted a thought that women should sacrifice for their men. Some people gave up their valuable chances to marry a man, or some of them made a compromise to confront to their boyfriends’ standard. However, have you ever thought about when they sacrifice for you without your demanding? When they really give up something because of you? I can’t say there is none. But who can provide an example? Maybe you will realize something after getting hurt. There is why some people refuse to fall in love anymore. They are the real group, which have the right to say that because they have experienced the heaven therefore they could tell how it tastes in the hell. Take myself as an example. I once regarded my relationship as the most treasure thing on the world. I devoted myself to the relationship so deeply that I couldn’t remember the man, I am dating is just ordinary. I was attractive by his honesty, but people lie and they change. My fairy tale was shattered. There is no happy ending in my story anymore. Or maybe we should put it in this way, I got a new definition of happy ending. I remember my mother always says ‘’ Trust no one but yourself.’’ Is it pathetic? Yes, it is. But everyone should keep them in mind unless they will never marry a wrong guy. After getting hurt, I am happy because I know my mother is right. I should not waste too much time on men. Yet I should invest myself and open as many doors for me as possible. The skill you obtain is real, the success you achieve is real. The prince only exits in the fairy tale. This is ruthless, but that’s how the world works. The purpose of this article is actually not telling you not to love, but love carefully. Leaving some space and time for each other is wise. Besides, you will find you have anything when you spread your hands. Try to remember there are other possibilities for you apart from the fairy tale. --

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