您好 您可能弄混了Saint Ignatius of Loyola的两个不同概念 一个是indifference 一个是discernment http://www.ignatianspirituality.com/ 这个应该是他的官网吧 点进去後首页就有一篇 http://www.ignatianspirituality.com/24425/discernment-different-stages-life In the years of young adulthood, we face—sometimes quite suddenly—major decisions that can have great impact on the rest of life. Our discernment at this time has much to do with self-understanding. Am I a good fit to be in relationship with this person, or that one? Am I suited well to this kind of work/career or to something else? By this time, we should have right and wrong figured out for the most part. But what about our priorities? Do our daily choices and actions move us toward what we see as a life purpose? Into middle adulthood—by this I mean late 30s into the 50s—the discernment gets even trickier, because by now we likely have multiple and appropriate attachments. Many of us are in serious relationships, are parents, have begun careers or at least have established a steady working life. Much of our discernment involves figuring out how all these aspects of life are interacting and where corrections need to be made. We are discerning how to discipline and guide children and how to work through marital difficulties; at the same time, we are moving outward, trying to help others, to be people for others. We probably were helping others years ago, but it’s more complicated now that we have multiple obligations. 而这个更是我们会面对的问题 就是我们无从discern神的旨意 无从discern神的带领 然後自己走上自己错误的道路 文章最後提出了几个部分可以去discern Identifying patterns of thought or behavior that we need to face and change. Identifying deep and lasting wounds and learning how to seek healing and restoration. Choosing the best out of multiple good options. Dealing with unhealthy attachments; praying and working toward spiritual freedom. Discovering the best way to use our resources—gifts, money, time, and energy—to help the world. 但毕竟只是散文(类似每日读经 每日祈祷 那种10分钟解决的散文) 所以终究只有点到为止 至於如何去discern神的旨意 就没有多做说明了 -- ※ 编辑: aun5780 (49.217.188.30), 07/17/2017 09:30:52