Someone's evasiveness, distance, or coldness probably has nothing whatsoever to do with you. Because you are so sensitive, though, you might take a certain person's behavior to heart, and you may wonder what you did wrong. There you go, blaming yourself again, dear Moonchild! Any sense of a chasm that you perceive between yourself and someone else today has more to do with their own state of mind than with you. Just be kind and compassionate, and they will come around. 某人的逃避、距离感、或是冷漠或许都跟你没有任何关系，不过因为你是如此的敏感， 所以你可能会把某个特定人士的行为放在心上，而你也许会忍不住怀疑自己做错了什 麽。你看，你又来了，你又在自责了，亲爱的月之子！今天你察觉到自己跟某个人之 间的鸿沟，更多是源自於他自己的心态与情绪，而不是你的问题。你只要保持和善与 同情心，他就会改变自己的想法的。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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