If you are, by nature, a shy person (as many Cancerians are), then you probably won't stride into a party and pretend to be an extrovert. You wouldn't know how, even if you wanted to. But you could engage in meaningful conversations and shine in your own extraordinary way. This does far more than compensate for not being the "life of the party," but rather the one who makes people think, who causes people to smile, and who engages in a gently beguiling manner. You may be worried that an upcoming experience is not suited for you. But you can be good at anything, as long as you come as your best yourself! 如果你天生是害羞的人（就像许多巨蟹一样），那你或许不会大步踏进派对，然後装 做是个性外向的人。你不会知道怎麽当外向的人，就算你想要也一样。不过你可以加 入一段有意义的对话，然後用属於你的非凡的方式发光发热，这确实比没有成为「派 对的焦点」还要好的多，可是却能让你成为促使人们思考、让人们微笑、又非常温和 有礼的人。你可能在担心即将到来的经历不适合你，但是你可以擅长任何事，只要你 做最好的自己就可以办到！ -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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