If you have been scrambling to fulfill a promise by a certain date, and it seems to be impossible, addressing it directly would be the best thing to do. You may think that you can double your efforts and catch up - and maybe that is possible - but you should at least consider asking for an extension. Those who know you, Moonchild, know that you value your integrity and that you always work hard to honor your promises. There is no shame in falling behind when you have tried. Working this out will give you a great sense of relief. 如果你一直为了在某个时限之前实现某个承诺而仓促地行动，而那似乎是不可能的任 务，那麽直接处理才是最好的决定。你也许会认为自己可以付出双倍的努力然後迎头 赶上—或许这样做有机会—但是你应该至少要审慎考虑要求延长截止日期。那些了解 你的人，月之子，知道你重视自己的完整性，也知道你总是很努力地兑现自己的承诺。 如果当你尝试过了，进度却还是落後，那也完全没必要感到羞愧，解决这个问题将会 让你大大地松了一口气。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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