You may find yourself in a heated debate or an argument with someone, Moonchild. You may not be able to see the virtue in this person's point of view, and so you may have no respect for what that person is saying. But if your goal is to achieve a workable level of teamwork and harmony with another human being, then you will need to at least respect that person's opinion - even if you consider it to be wrong. When you begin to see your conflict as a way of understanding this person, you will begin to be more approachable, and there will be less tension. Empathy is always a good way to go. ---- 你可能与某号人物在一个激烈的争辩或是争论中找到自己，月之子。你也许无法见到 这号人物观点中的美德，而因此你也许不大尊重这号人物在说些什麽。但是你的目标 是能与其它人达到团队合作及工作和谐的可行性，那麽你至少得将需要去尊重那个人 物的意见- 即便你觉得这意见是错误的。当你开始能见到你们的冲突，是能够成为了 解这号人物的一种方式，你会开始变的更柔软，并且彼此存在的紧张感会更加减少。 同理心永远是最有效的方式。 ---- 渣翻求指点。 --

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