Winning an argument is not just a matter of presenting the right facts and figures to convince someone that they are wrong and you are right. Because you are intellectually inclined, Aquarius, you may see that as the most logical way to proceed. But not everyone has the same grasp on facing reality that you do. Sometimes winning an argument, and convincing someone that you are right is about more than proving you are right - it is about the emotional aspects. Allow this person to go along with their own plan, then quietly make suggestions at the appropriate moments. A non-threatening approach is received best. 赢得一个争论，并不是只是提出正确的事实和数据 来说服他人你是对的而他们是错的。 因为你是偏理性的，所以你看事情总是用最逻辑的方式来处理。 但是并不是所有人都有着跟你一样的理解。 有时候赢得一个争论，说服某个人你是对的， 并不是仅仅只是证明就够了，而是要情绪上真的接受。 所以让这个人用他们自己的计画进行，然後在适当的时候悄悄提出建议。 不带威胁的方法是最好被接收的。 -- --

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