If something is going wrong for you now, can you find a reason to see an advantage in that? You may be so preoccupied with what's happening because it turns your plans upside down, and it won't fullfill the expectations you had. But that doesn't mean you are doomed for failure, Aquarius. While the path you planned may veer off in a different direction, there is still the possiblity that it will be better for you in the end. Find a creative way to see this, with emphasis on the best possibilties. 如果现在事情出了差错，你是否能找到理由来看见这件事的优点？ 你可能正专注在事情发生的原因，因为它已经完全颠覆你的计划， 且没有满足你对整件事的期望。 但这不表示你命中注定要失败的，水瓶们。 当你计划中的道路转向了不同的方向， 还是有可能在最後获得比你想得更好的结果。 找个较有创意的角度来看吧，把重点放在正向的可能性上。 小结：塞翁失马，焉知非福？换个角度想想吧！ -- 人生这麽短 你怎麽不去追求你要的？ --

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