You do not have to go along with a plan you don't like just because someone you care about wants you to. When you see this message in writing, dear Scorpio, it hopefully triggers something in you. It might be the advice you would give a child as a lesson in peer pressure. You want to please someone you admire, but it should not be at the expense of what you want for yourself. Don't cave in if you don't want to say yes, and don't avoid the conversation either. Be strong enough and confident enough to just say no. 你不必認同一個你不喜歡的計畫，只因為某個你在乎的人想要你照做。親愛的天蠍， 當你看到這裡的時候，但願這能觸發你心底的某個東西。這也許是你要給一個孩子在 同儕壓力中會學到一課的建議，你想要逗某個你欣賞的人開心，但這不應該用你想要 給自己的東西作為代價。如果你不想答應，那就不要答應，而且也不要逃避溝通，要 有足夠的勇氣和足夠的自信來拒絕他人。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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