We all know an instigator - someone who likes to do things or make comments that they know will get a rise out of others. Although we may not know why they get their thrills in this way, we do know that by reacting we are giving them exactly what they want - and because they are satisfied, they may trouble us again and again with their antics. Someone may be bugging you now, Scorpio, but you don't have to fall for the bait. Develop an apathetic response to an instigator in your life, and chances are they will soon go away. 我們都知道煽動的人——喜歡做某些事或做出評論，他知道這樣會讓其他人起身反抗。 雖然我們可能不會知道為什麼他們會因為這種方式而產生快感，但是我們確實知道我 們有反應的話，就是正中他們的下懷了——而因為他們有所滿足，所以他們也許會一 而再，再而三地用古怪的舉動讓我們感到困擾。某個人或許正在煩你，天蠍，可是你 沒必要中他的計，你要對身邊那些煽動的人無動於衷，如此一來，他可能很快就會消 失了。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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