Someone you know very well may have made a choice that you do not understand. Because their choice does not seem to align with who this person is, Leo, you may assume it was the wrong way to go. But you need to consider another possib ility. It is possible that you don't know everything about this individual, an d maybe they made the right choice for their situation. Now turn that situatio n around. If there is someone who does not understand a choice you made recent ly, they may not know what made this choice work for you. Help them understand , and you will feel freer to express yourself. — 一個你非常了解的人可能做出了一個你無法理解的選擇，因為他們的選擇似乎不像是這個 人會做出的。 你可能會認為這是錯的，但你需要考慮另一種可能性。 你可能不了解這個人的情況，也 許他們其實做出了正確的選擇。 現在把情況反過來。 如果有些人不了解你最近所做出的選擇，那麼他們可能並不知道是 什麼原因使你做出了那樣的選擇。 幫助他們理解，你就可以更加自由地表達自己。 --

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