The preconceived idea you have about someone in your life may not be entirely accurate. You like to size things up before you enter into new situations, Leo, because it gives you the sense of having greater control. But sometimes you jump ahead of yourself and make assumptions based on what you do know, your perceptions, and some of your past experiences that may have little to do with the person you are now judging. Hold off on those ideas and experience this person without prejudice. cr. http://comitic.com/dh -- 字彙 *size sth/sb up: 判斷 *have little to do with: 與此無關 -- 你對於某人先入為主的想法並非完全正確。 你喜歡還沒有進入情況就預先判斷，因為這讓你有強烈的掌控感。 但有時候你太快根據你所知道的、看法以及過去的經驗做出判斷。 這些對於判斷這個人沒什麼關係。 暫緩這些想法和經驗，不要對這個人保有偏見。 -- 摘要：別因第一印象就否定一個人，實際相處過後再決定！ -- 可是第一次見面就說些花言巧語的話，有點難不自動歸到某一類。Orz --

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