You may be miles apart in a negotiation with someone now, Leo, despite trying to influence the other person, and vice versa. It may seem pointless to continue negotiating at this juncture because you can't even imagine agreeing to the other person's terms; nor can you imagine the other person agreeing to your terms. But somewhere in the middle is a place where you can both meet and be satisfied, if not completely happy. Try giving a little, and most likely the other person will do the same. With open communication, you should be able to reach a workable solution. cr. http://comitic.com/dh -- 字彙 *vice versa: 反之亦然 *juncture: 時刻 -- 現在你或許與某人隔空喊話，不論怎樣試圖影響他，他一樣也在影響你。 這時刻繼續喊話似乎是毫無意義， 因為你甚至無法想像自己接受他的條件，同樣的，你也無法想像對方接受自己的條件。 但總有一個你們雙方都可以接受、滿意的條件。 如果不是非常滿意的話，試著退一步，而他很有可能也會這麼做。 透過開放式溝通，你們應該可以找到有效的解決方式。 -- 摘要：硬碰硬只會吃虧啦。 -- 最近有點迷惘， 知道對方一定會放手支持我的追逐，而自己卻眷戀著他給的自由。 啊啊啊啊～大家週末愉快，希望颱風不會造成影響。囧 --

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