You may be taking on a responsibility right now that isn't really yours. You may see this as a noble act, dear Gemini, mostly because you want to help some one out. And while your intentions may be wonderful, you have to think about h ow your actions will affect the other party. While they may seem to be struggl ing, is it a struggle they actually need to work through? You could help from the sidelines instead, offering encouragement and inspiration without taking o n that person's burden. You might be doing a favor for both of you. 你也許正在承擔不屬於你的責任。 你認為這是一種高尚的行為，親愛的雙子們， 大部分是因為你想要幫助某個人。 你的意圖也許是好的，你必須去想你的行為將會影響另外一方。 雖然他們似乎在掙扎，但是他們需要經歷這樣的掙扎嗎？ 你可以從旁提供協助，提供鼓勵和靈感，而不是承擔那個人的義務。 你也許幫了你們兩個人的忙。 Ps. 如果有誤譯請指教，謝謝。 --

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