Try to be flexible today about a matter that someone wants to argue about. You may have specific things in mind that you want or need, dear Gemini, and you are not open to negotiation. However, if you approach this in a concerned mann er, showing that you do care about what the other person wants as well, then t hey will be more open to talking it over with you. Sometimes just showing that you actually hear someone is enough to make them flexible too. 今天試著對某個人想辦法爭論某件事情保持彈性。 您也許在心裡面有特定想要或者是需要的東西，親愛的雙子們，而您不願意談判。 然而，如果你以關心的方式處理這件事，展現你的確也關心對方的需求， 那麼他們就會用更開放的心胸與你談論此事。 有時候，只要顯示你確實聽到某個人的聲音，就足以讓他們也變得靈活。 Ps. 如果有誤譯請指教，謝謝。 --

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