All you really want in a current endeavor is to be able to do things your own way. That's what you're standing up for, dear Gemini, and you will stubbornly defend your position. But are you sure that's what you want? Could there be a bit more to it? For example, could it be that you don't just want to do things your way, but you also want someone else to do things your way? If that's the case, you will have to be honest with yourself about it. You can either convi nce the other party to go along because it's the right way, or you can comprom ise. 當前的努力中，你真的想要做的就是能夠以自己的方式做事。 那是你所堅持的，親愛的雙子們，你會頑強地捍衛你自己的地位。 但是你確定這個真的是你所想要的？ 還能再多一點嗎？ 舉例來說，可能你不只想要以你自己的方式做事， 但是你也想要別人以你的方式做事？ 如果是那種情形的話，你不得不對自己誠實。 你可以說服對方同意，因為這是正確的方法，也可以妥協。 Ps. 如果有誤譯請指教，謝謝。 --

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