A common punishment today for when a child is not behaving would be to give th em a "time out," or perhaps take away their electronic devices for a certain p eriod of time. Going without often teaches a lesson that is better than becomi ng angry or yelling. Someone may not be treating you as you desire to be treat ed, Gemini. Getting angry and lashing out might temporarily allow you to vent, but taking your attention away from this individual and ignoring the situatio n is more likely to have a longer-lasting, and more impactful effect. 今天，一種常見的處罰，當孩子不乖會給他們一個「暫停」， 或者是拿走他們的電子用品一段時間。 走開通常帶來的教訓比生氣或者是吼叫好。 某個人也許沒有照您期待的方式對待你，雙子們。 生氣並且猛烈抨擊只是暫時讓你發洩， 但是將你的注意力從這個人身上移走， 並且忽略這種情況可能影響更持久、更有衝擊力。 Ps.如果有誤譯請指教，謝謝。 --

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