If you dedicate some time to work on a regret or a disappointment that has bee n weighing you down, you can get through it and move on to better things. Main tain a mindset of rising above what is bothering you, and find ways to inspire yourself and learn from your experience. It might take you all day to put thi ngs in perspective and to be more objective about what you have been through, Gemini, but you can do it. When you question what if over and over, it begins to feel like a failure, even though you most likely did the very best you coul d. Start praising yourself instead for being strong enough to improve yourself . 如果你曾致力於讓你後悔或者是讓你失望的事情， 你可以跨越過它，並且朝更好的目標邁進。 保持超越困擾你的心態，找出鼓勵你自己的方法， 並且從中學習你的經驗。 它可能需要花費你一整天的時間去把你曾經經歷過的事情看得更透澈、更客觀， 雙雙們，你可以做到的。 當你一遍又一遍的詢問自己，它開始感覺像個失敗， 即使你極有可能已經盡了自己的最好。 開始稱讚自己，而不是強烈的要求自己改進。 Ps.如果有誤譯請指教，謝謝。 --

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