It can be much easier to give advice on a complicated matter to someone than i t can be to figure out what to do for yourself in a similar situation. That's because your distance from the situation and your lack of involvement in someo ne else's problem can help you see it more clearly and objectively. And when t here is nothing to lose personally, there is little to worry about. If you are struggling to find an answer now, Gemini, try to see your problem as someone else would see it. It will become a whole lot clearer. 在一件複雜的事情上給別人建議遠比你自己身處同樣的情境自己解決來得容易。 那是因為你離情況有點距離，而你缺乏涉入某個人的問題，那可以幫助你看得更清晰、更 客觀。 當那裡沒有什麼好失去的，那裡也沒有什麼好擔心的。 如果你現在正在掙扎去尋找一個答案，雙子們，試著去把你的問題當成是別人的問題。 它會變得更清晰。 Ps.如果有誤譯請指教，謝謝。 --

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